Wednesday, March 12, 2008

It’s Not the Size of the Dog in the Fight; It’s the Size of the Fight in the Dog

Everyone gets down in the dumps from time to time right? Well one of the lowest and most depressing moments in a person’s life is when they are unemployed. Most likely you want to sit in bed all day with a box of Oreo cookies while you let the crumbs roll all over the sheets in a big miserable mess. Obviously this isn’t the right way to cope.

It’s funny to think that animals might be able to best understand the rejection and indignity that humans face day to day in the employment world. Dancer, a tiny Chihuahua from Leesburg, FL, has faced numerous struggles such as our own. Born to a dying and abandoned mother, Dancer was no bigger than a human thumb. The veterinarian suggested euthanizing him because of his size and the series of health problems that would ensue. The new owner objected and Dancer has emerged as a healthy and certified therapy dog today.

All prospective employees feel like Dancer at one point in their lives. Discarded and left to rot. Not the most pleasant feeling one can possess. However, Dancer teaches the unemployed, unshaven and day long pajama wearing citizens not to get discouraged.

Even if you are productive from day to day with applying to jobs and rewriting your resume a million times, there are limits to your productivity when you are unemployed. Instead of watching reruns of Project Runway, get out of the house and go volunteer! Being able to see a smile on the face of someone you are helping can bring a huge smile to your own. A positive attitude exudes positive energy and this can be the key to getting you back in the employment game.

Dancer’s owner, Jenny Gomes, said a man in the veterinarian's office offered her $5,000 for Dancer when he found out the dog was an adult. Gomes refused, saying, “No way. You don't sell love.” Almost every job I have ever had presses the idea that if you love your job you will never work a day in your life. You could be offered a huge salary and benefits but if it is something so boring that it makes your eyes glaze over then you should ultimately leave it behind. Just like Dancer, you as an employee should not be bought. You should make a career doing what you love and you will radiate with confidence and happiness.

There is always a healing process when you get discarded but there are ways to bounce back. You have to have the willpower to overcome the career tragedy you have faced and learn from the experience. Just like Dancer, if you find a career you love then it will never feel like work. Stick to that motto and get out of your bed. I mean, if an 18 ounce dog can do it than you can do it too.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wow. I feel bad about myself now. While I was unemployed, I should have volunteered. I probably wouldn't have felt so dejected.

Anonymous said...

This is a phenomenal piece of advice. If everyone gave a few hours of their weeks towards volunteering, we wouldn't always be so short staffed and more people would receive the help they deserve.

Anonymous said...

Wow. This reminds me of my worker friend Cecil Juice. He got himself a dog, but I don't know if it has helped him quite yet. Maybe another jar of peanut butter and it will be a success story!